Valentines Day is fast approaching! Oh the feels the internet is bringing to our screen: from Ways To say I Love You in Different Languages to Recipes For A Sizzling Night, all to make one day of your life romantic. Aw.
Before I met Ash, I didn’t care for it. Then he happened, then I started to get really cheesy and insanely romantic. I thought I wouldn’t be like this, but heck being in love changes you in ways you cannot imagine, and suddenly I can relate to all Pablo Neruda poems. Being in love strangely made me know myself more. I didn’t know I can give myself to a person like this. I didn’t know I can be cheesy. I didn’t know I’d change (to better myself) so much in a short period of time. I didn’t know my heart skip a beat over a person for a long term period. I knew how to be patient, generous, honest (we have this world going on), how to go with the flow.
Ash and I love movies. The cinema is part of our love story since the day we started, and naturally, we watch movies together even if we are sometimes continents apart. Because of this, we got to enjoy watching movies together by playing movies simultaneously on our respective laptops/TVs, which is cool because we don’t need to spend on the cinema! I love it when he is beside me though. You know that moment when his hand finds its way to yours when a romantic scene is cued or when you can just cuddle and lay your head on his tummy while you watch Four Brothers in a tiny hotel in Bangkok. Oh I’m all kilig na. Ano ba yan.
To pay tribute to the feeling called love, I have compiled a list of films for you and your significant other (which can be yourself too, take note) to enjoy this Saturday, near or far. Although some of which in the list are dark, they’re all proper good films and surprisingly romantic. Have fun!
1. True Romance. 1993. 8/10 (imdb). This brilliant film penned by Quentin Tarantino and directed by Tony Scott is special for me because this is the first film we watched in his house. It revolves about Clarence (a very young Christian Slater) and Alabama (also a very young Patricia Arquette) stealing cocaine from Alabama’s pimp, and they try to run away. So fun, so nostalgic, so romantic in a very Tarantino + Scott way. Think Pulp Fiction and Top Gun together.
2. Drive. 2011. 7.8/10 (imdb). Based on the book by James Sallis, Drive is one of the most enjoyable, art hous-ey films I have watched. It’s a quiet movie, but it’s very gripping. It talks about the story of the Driver (ever guapo Ryan Gosling)- a stuntman, mechanic and a getaway driver – and his very adult, complicated and tragic relationship with his neighbor. It’s all real and it’s all about the feels in this film. FEELS.
3. When Harry Met Sally. 1989. 7.6/10 (imdb). Timeless. Everyone can relate to this, hence it is full of classic scenes and lines – who can ever forget Meg Ryan’s orgasmic face in the restaurant? If this film were a person, I’d describe it as funny and down to earth. See Harry (Billy Crystal) and Sally are very good friends, and obviously attracted to each other but feared sex would ruin the relationship. Now how funny is that notion?
4. Only You. 1994. 6.5/10 (imdb) The hot Marisa Tomei plays Faith, a teacher who is convinced that her soulmate is Damon Bradley. So just before she marries her podiatrist boyfriend whom she has doubts with, she receives a call from a man named *gasp* Damon Bradley who is on the way to Rome. So she flies to Rome. Think Wedding Singer for 1995.
5. Time Traveler’s Wife. 2009. 7.1/10 (imdb) This is the mindfuck movie of the list. This appeals to the geek in me, as Eric Bana here, who is married to Rachel McAdams, has a gene that causes him to involuntarily time travel. They start of as a couple in love but things get difficult as his time travel gets more frequent, and it just shows how love can make you patient and, well, generous. It’s like a long distance relationship through time, and it has greatly helped me appreciate what we have as a couple.
6. High Fidelity. 2000. 7.6/10 (imdb) Although considered as a music/comedy, this film talks about love in a non-sappy way. Based on the book by Nick Hornby (who can go wrong with Nick Hornby?) the film is centered on Rob – a compulsive list maker, a record store owner and a music snob – who just had a breakup. The film follows him as he lists his Top Five breakups and the reasons for each all the time while weaving music, adulthood and life. Check out Jack Black in his hilarious, and I think, most genuine role before he was The Jack Black.
7. Casablanca. 1942. (imdb) This is one of the best films, hands down. Sure it’s romantic but it’s all other films at once: film noir, war film, general 40’s pulp storyline going on… it’s just fun to watch! Before I watched this (really late, I think I was 20), I thought I knew the story because it’s so popular, it’s in every must-see list. Tell you what, you’ve never seen it until you’ve seen it. It is so much more than “as time goes by”, and you just have to be kilig with Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman’s chemistry.
8. A Walk in the Clouds.1995. 6.6/10 (imdb) This story is like a fairy tale for adults. It starts with a handsome young man meeting an unmarried but preggo rich young woman in a bus. Twist is, he offers to pose as her husband to save her face (and life) from her old school father. Obviously, they fall in love and we follow their trials and tribulations in order to stay together.
9. Ten Things I Hate About You. 1999. 7.2/10 (imdb) The modern version of Shakespeare’s The Taming of the Shrew is the movie that made me crush on Heath Ledger. Story goes like this: Cameron, the new kid in school, falls for Bianca. However, Bianca cannot date unless her older sister Kat, who’s a cold-hearted bitch, goes for a date too. So he enlists the jerk-model Patrick to a dare to date Kat. I guess you know what happens next.
10. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. 2004. 8.4/10 (imdb). One of my most favourite films ever. Watched it in the cinema alone when I was cutting classes in high school, and pretended I was 18. You know those films that inspire you to be a film director and makes you obsessed with films? This is one of those. The story is engaging and the visuals are surreal. Joel, because his ex Clementine decided to erase him from her memory, decides to do the same. However, while the process of deletion is ongoing, all the memories that he remembered makes him realise what they had going. Loss makes you realise what you have is special kinda thing, and I think everyone can relate with that. It’s touching, human and honest. And the song by Beck is fucking good.
11. Breakfast at Tiffany’s. 1961. 7.8/10 (imdb) This is another one of those films that are so popular that you think you have seen it even if you haven’t. And tell you what, you should see it if you haven’t. Hepburn’s character Holly Golightly has nothing glamorous in it as portrayed in all the memes and fashion magazines these days. She’s actually pathetic, vunerable and neurotic when she’s alone with her guard down like most of us; totally different from her public persona who happens to be fun, charming, sexy, and sophisticated. All this character observation lies on the experience of Paul Varjak, Holly’s new next door neighbor who she develops a… special bond with. This great film is based on the novel by the legendary Truman Capote with the same title.
12. 50 First Dates. 2004. 6.8/10 (imdb). I’ll never get tired of this movie! It’s funny, cute, entertaining, it’s perfect! IMDB sums it up nicely: “Henry Roth is a man afraid of commitment up until he meets the beautiful Lucy. They hit it off and Henry think he’s finally found the girl of his dreams, until he discovers she has short-term memory loss and forgets him the very next day.” So they start every day as their first date, and it goes on and on and on and on.
13. Groundhog Day. 1993. 8.1/10 (imdb). Another classic, guys. Although most people would not consider this one romantic – because what’s romantic is living the same day again and again and again – but you have to remember that Bill Murray’s character has to learn to love someone apart from himself. Andie MacDowell provides that, although Bill Murray’s first intentions were a bit… blase. It’s so funny and fantastic though, that you might wanna experience this movie again and again and again.
14. Lost in Translation. 2003. 7.8/10 (imdb) Although not considered by most as a romantic film, I think it is. Another one of my favourites, this film tackles loneliness and finding someone in the same boat. The film makes loneliness more accessible because it is set in a foreign country, and it is where people can either reinvent themselves or be vulnerable. Bill Murray and Scarlett Johansson as Bob and Charlotte respectively, makes the film alive with their very subtle perfomances. Finding themselves sharing confusion and alienation in Tokyo, they form a bond that only traveling companions can have, even if they may be the most improbable pair. Now as their friendship deepens, they realise that their Japanese sojourn is going to end. Will their relationship also end? It does remind me of me and Ash when I think about it because we were these lonely people when we met each other and he had to leave Manila. Fortunately, we did not end our special friendship and we nurtured it to the point of where we are now, stronger and better. Happy days.